JennieS
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- Jun 25, 2013
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- Ruthie(died 11/27/18) Brutus & Hazel
Sorry guys this may be a long post but i'm stumped on how to proceed with Brutus.
As most of you know Brutus is a wild guy. He's stubborn, free-sprited and pretty much brutus does what brutus wants with in boundaries we have gave him. We are kinda at a tipping point, well Brian my husband is, i'm not. but things have been on-going and i need to do something about it.
So yesterday, I was gone all day and Brian had Ruthie and brutus over our friend's house all day. So this is what happened as relayed by Brian. brutus is very one-track minded, when he focuses in on something it's all or nothing. he wants it and will do whatever to get to it. He has NO CLUE when to stop. He would rather die, than calm down, catch a breath, get some water...etc. Apparently he was like this all day with our friends dog, he tore apart their kids swing and was running around like a maniac getting into everything. He's inquisitive. Brian said he was panting and breathing so hard he had to put him in the truck and turn on the air for over an hr and a half to get him to calm down. i do know brian was watching him all day. After he brought him back out of the truck, he tied him up and made brutus sit there while Ruthie and Dixie were free to roam around.
I have to stop this from happening. It's like his brain goes nuts and he is so focused he won't stop until he's dead. I keep a very controlled environment for Ruthie and brutus, and just being me, i know brian doesn't watch them like i do. brian said brutus wouldn't listen all day to him and he was just bad.
I need to go back to his basic training, i will be the first to admit i've totally slacked with him. I love his free-spiritedness and i just get him and his personality and I don't want to break that in him, but i've got to get him to a point where he knows when to quit.
I don't know what to do though. I can't afford to take him to training right now because we are doing a $20,000 remodel on our home and i know i can do it if i take the time. I am not sure what i should be training him on to get him to leave things alone and calm down. Once he gets excited, that's it, his path of terror is miles long.
I hope i gave enough detailed into his personality and what i'm trying to explain about him. i want the best life for him but sometimes he's just uncontrollable if he's left to his own devices. I don't want to keep him on a leash and collar every time we go somewhere. He should be able to play but not kill himself in the process.
Does anyone have any suggestions? Should i teach him to "leave it"? so when i say that he will maybe calm down a bit?
As most of you know Brutus is a wild guy. He's stubborn, free-sprited and pretty much brutus does what brutus wants with in boundaries we have gave him. We are kinda at a tipping point, well Brian my husband is, i'm not. but things have been on-going and i need to do something about it.
So yesterday, I was gone all day and Brian had Ruthie and brutus over our friend's house all day. So this is what happened as relayed by Brian. brutus is very one-track minded, when he focuses in on something it's all or nothing. he wants it and will do whatever to get to it. He has NO CLUE when to stop. He would rather die, than calm down, catch a breath, get some water...etc. Apparently he was like this all day with our friends dog, he tore apart their kids swing and was running around like a maniac getting into everything. He's inquisitive. Brian said he was panting and breathing so hard he had to put him in the truck and turn on the air for over an hr and a half to get him to calm down. i do know brian was watching him all day. After he brought him back out of the truck, he tied him up and made brutus sit there while Ruthie and Dixie were free to roam around.
I have to stop this from happening. It's like his brain goes nuts and he is so focused he won't stop until he's dead. I keep a very controlled environment for Ruthie and brutus, and just being me, i know brian doesn't watch them like i do. brian said brutus wouldn't listen all day to him and he was just bad.
I need to go back to his basic training, i will be the first to admit i've totally slacked with him. I love his free-spiritedness and i just get him and his personality and I don't want to break that in him, but i've got to get him to a point where he knows when to quit.
I don't know what to do though. I can't afford to take him to training right now because we are doing a $20,000 remodel on our home and i know i can do it if i take the time. I am not sure what i should be training him on to get him to leave things alone and calm down. Once he gets excited, that's it, his path of terror is miles long.
I hope i gave enough detailed into his personality and what i'm trying to explain about him. i want the best life for him but sometimes he's just uncontrollable if he's left to his own devices. I don't want to keep him on a leash and collar every time we go somewhere. He should be able to play but not kill himself in the process.
Does anyone have any suggestions? Should i teach him to "leave it"? so when i say that he will maybe calm down a bit?