First I want to say that you have amazing maturity for a 20 year old. I have two boys 18 and 20 and I could only wish that they could have half of what you have :-) Secondly, I get on what I call my "Bullie Pulpit" as soon as someone says to me "Oh I want a bullie so much" and they are usually young people who ( as you point out) just dont' have a clue as to what inviting a bullie into your life actually entails. Again, when friends and family see what we have been through with all of Dublin's surgeries etc, they just couldn't believe that I went ahead and rescued another bullie ( Dublin is not a rescue). Tio is an absolute doll ( he is on the left in my Avatar photo). His life of neglect is beyond belief and it continues to be a daily battle to get him well. We certainly struggle financially to keep both bullies healthy and happy but I wouldnt' have it any other way. My family and friends continue to believe in my "nuttiness" but that is okay with me.