@Manydogs...your guess is as good as mine on that one. Brie follows me everywhere..the behaviorist said she shouldn't do that because in her mind it's like she has to. So she told me to stop her...but I love her following meI asked her if she felt the behaviors I was concerned about (her very rough play w my son, her attacking my other dog when I go to put the leash on him, her possessiveness over food etc) was her being or trying to be dominant to which after spending time w her she said no, that I don't have a dominant dog in my house, but her state of mind related to me was an issue. In my opinion, if a dogs state of mind is higher then it should be, wouldn't that be equivalent to vying for position ...or trying to be dominant? I'm lost... Lol
but seriously, my dogs follow me everywhere I go be it in the house, in the yard or in the great outdoors of a park, for me that is a must 
. One thing I've learned also is that you need to claim your husband and your son as your pack members, she may not respect them right now but if her pack leader (you) accepts them then she has no choice but to follow your lead. It is also true that your husband and son really must get on board with you and take a more active role in her training, all humans need to be seen by her as a pack leader so she can learn the proper respect for them, you claiming them and correcting her when she steps out of line will help but once they are on board and following your lead the problem will go away. Explain to them that if they don't help and do the things you are trying to teach them it only hurts her but to be a confident pack leader would help and make her a happy dog ... also if your son is scared because she nips at him, explain taking an active role in her training will make that fear go away (and will actually make him more confident too <-- that part you don't have to tell him ). I totally understand what you mean when you say she was telling you so many things at once ... in my experience I've learned that I have to say to the trainer or teacher to slow down this helps me learn each step and to not get overwhelmed, just because they know the steps or thoughts doesn't mean it's being clearly explained. I actually once said "ATAT" to my trainer/teacher without thinking because she was going to fast and it just slipped out 
but caught her attention I thought she was going to wet herself she laughed so hard but sure made a big difference in her delivery of information. Oh before I forget, when leashing Hunter make sure to have Brie on a leash so you can give her a quick leash correction (slight tug of the leash to the side ... if you pull to the side it snaps her out of that thought pattern but if you pull up or back that's seen more as holding back and a dog will try to advance to the challenge) and a verbal ATAT so she understands that she is not allowed to do that behavior.
@bulldogs4me yes, it does, and it will..now, do I need to pay you 400$ too? Lol thank you for all the effort you put into this information. My son gets just as rev'd up as she does, so for him it is learning to stay calm n not roll around on the floor..I have discussed training n feeding etc w them over n over. they jump in every so often..so, it looks like it is gonna be just mainly me as pack leader...I will continue to try to convince, plead w them, demand..lol...to them that they need to have their hands in this more tho. Thank you again
oh wait yes I do, you are charged to give Brie 100 hugs, 100 kisses and a lifetime of love yep yep that will work your husband and son may come around more when they start seeing how much of a difference training and a strong pack leader makes in Brie's demeanor ... best bet is to claim them as part of your pack and with consistent correction Brie will view them as yours and give them more respect because it sounds like she already gives you her respect by how she follows your lead
I will gladly give her those payments, and more! I think your 'enough' idea is perfect and I will start working on that w both of them today! Maybe between the 2 I can get 1 of them to stop before it escalates lolthank you for the giggle, and nope I don't charge for the advise
Oh and since your son gets riled up while playing maybe you could do what I do with my little male Diesel, Diesel gets all kinds of angry when people play rough with him, so I had to teach him the verbal command "Enough" coupled with the sound aversion technique, I clap my hands together ... so when he gets over excited during play with other people, I will "Clap" my hands and say "Enough" which will make him stop right away and look to me for direction of what to do next.
