Oh wow... I really do feel for you. I know how scary it sounds and it seems that this unwelcome news from your new vet is only complicated by the fact that you have a vet you don't like. But don't worry...you and your baby will get through this.
Chance had some red eye issues earlier in the year and responded well to anti-biotic drops. Quite recently, however, I noticed his eyes were remaining red. Not goopy or anything - just red. (As an aside, my best friend is an optometrist and, while visiting one day remarked that he had conjunctivitis so she recommended continued use of eye drops daily). Anyway, I took him back into his vet last week and his vet said the same thing yours did - that he has entropion in both eyes (in one eye, top and bottom lashes) which would require surgery.
To be perfectly frank, while I know it sounds horrible and scary to hear that your dog can go blind from this, it is technically true so it is a cause for concern. But, as others have said here, get a second opinion. I am not convinced that Chance has entropion. I monitor his eyes regularly while cleaning his face and though I am no expert I don't see evidence of the lids turning inward. His bloodline (from what I can recall) has no history of entropion in it and his breeder is one of the directors for the Bulldog Club of Central Canada so (I would hope!) she's screened for that sort of thing. A couple of other (minor) things have made me consider switching Chance's vet so I've taken this as a great opportunity to seek a second opinion. We will get through this together!
In the meantime, his eyes have responded well to the gel drops.
P.S. I have read elsewhere (and if anybody could substantiate or refute this, please do!) that in some cases, entropion is not hereditary, but the result of situational allergens causing the eye to spasm and eventually fold. In that case, you can usually alleviate the problem via drops and removal of allergens. Anybody know how true that is? (I was reading generally about entropion in dogs and I think that statement was made regarding retrievers.)