Thanks again folks for all your feedback...i'm just now reading my thread and didn't realize i had so many great replies posted.
I believe I do need to spend more one on one time, especially w/Finn. Tate can be very attention-seeking and I can see Finn sometimes either going off to the side when i'm w/Tate b/c of Tate's huge "presence", or a fight will ensue betw. the two of them. For instance, I will be playing w/Finn and snuggling w/him and then here comes Tate! he gets right in the middle of our playing; in this instance I will usually tell Tate "NO" and make him wait til I'm done playing w/Finn...but I know i'm not always consistent.
I know Finn is trying to protect not only me, but Tate as well on our walks. Finn really is the gentlest boy and so playful and I just want him to be happy. Lately, our walks have been drama-free, thank goodness.
[MENTION=8050]Ashleym[/MENTION], is that gentle leader the same as a the "easy walk" harness? I do use that on both boys. [MENTION=2092]JAKEISGREAT[/MENTION]--yes, have been thinking of doing a "refresher" w/them. The lady we used last time does home visits so that's something i'm going to look into.
Thanks again!