I ended up taking my laptop to the love seat and she slept on me while I worked (laptop resting on the arm of loveseat) its not an ideal set up but since I dont let her in my bed I love to cuddle with her when I can!
lol they don't just ask for your attention they demand it ALL the time. My little guy will sit there and paw, groan, and give me the "stink eye" until I either get down on the floor and play with him or take him to bed with me!