What do I do

[Texas Carol]

Well to be honest maybe you are coming on a little strong. I would stop pushing the issue and just hwlo educate him
Maybe ask him to join ebn (after you get someone to delete this thread) if I felt like someone was trying to helo and actually intended on taking my dog or didn't like me , I wouldn't let them near my dog. So while well meaning he may be picking up on something you didn't realize you were putting out. If you know what I mean[/QUOTE

Correction...dozersmama is JEN...in error I called her Christine,
my bad and my apologies to you, dear Jen!

 

[dozersmama]

We didn't say you are coming on too strong, we're saying it might
seem to THIS WEIRDO that you are. It's not about taking offense
and "not caring if I do come on too strong"...I thought it was about
getting her out of his clutches? Because the reality IS...if he gets
pissed off...you're not getting her...simple as that.

Exactly. My point here is not that you shouldn't care this much or that you are wrong for caring just that maybe you need a different strategy. In reality unless you call the aspca theb they only option isnto convince him he wants her to be with you.

 

[dozersmama]

If you chase a dog , it has no option but to run away however if you get it's attention and run the other direction , it will start chasing after you