Thanks for all your responses. We basically know what we have to do, but it is a lot better hearing it from all of you!
Last night we just fought through it and let her cry. It seemed like it was all night long, because I feel I got NO sleep! Lol. And when we take her potty every 2 hours she just is so happy to see us, she gets super excited and starts running around like a crazy puppy and plays. So we have to wait it out until she finally does her business usually about 10-20 min later. Then back in the crate and back to the whining and crying and barking.
You guys are right, it will get easier as time goes by. We never thought we would make it through Tubby's puppy months but we conquered! Lol
I did just order some Bach rescue remedy though to try it at night time and see if that helps her desperation anxiety. Has anyone tried this, and if so did it help?
Thanks again for all your responses. Sometimes I think the reassuring and encouragement makes all the difference! You guys truly rock!!