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Lucy-licious
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I feel really hacked off with my in-laws.
Andrew my eldest boy is 21 on 9th August. We have been through a lot but seem to be getting there now and I am excited and emotional cos my baby is all grower up.
Anyways we have always had big family get togethers on birthdays, my nieces 18th n 21st, my nephews 18th and Andrew's 18th too. So I am making arrangments for THE meal only to be told the original date I planned isn't good for my MIL so I change the date, now I find that out of 12 relatives only 2 are coming... I feel let down and upset by their lack of interest in MY boys 21st birthday.
"it's just inconvenient" was my MIL's comment like his birthday should be moved. I am so P**sed and I so rarely get angry with them like this.
Am I being unreasonable or are they being thoughtless?
I am now feeling that rather than him know they don't care I will do something else and forgoe their so called tradition. Ooooh if it was Hayley or Dan (his cousins) guaranteed they would all be there.
Sorry if there are spellings in here I have been drowning my sorrows
Andrew my eldest boy is 21 on 9th August. We have been through a lot but seem to be getting there now and I am excited and emotional cos my baby is all grower up.
Anyways we have always had big family get togethers on birthdays, my nieces 18th n 21st, my nephews 18th and Andrew's 18th too. So I am making arrangments for THE meal only to be told the original date I planned isn't good for my MIL so I change the date, now I find that out of 12 relatives only 2 are coming... I feel let down and upset by their lack of interest in MY boys 21st birthday.
"it's just inconvenient" was my MIL's comment like his birthday should be moved. I am so P**sed and I so rarely get angry with them like this.
Am I being unreasonable or are they being thoughtless?
I am now feeling that rather than him know they don't care I will do something else and forgoe their so called tradition. Ooooh if it was Hayley or Dan (his cousins) guaranteed they would all be there.
Sorry if there are spellings in here I have been drowning my sorrows