I finally got some sleep last night, we changed it up a bit she stayed in the kennel which is in the kitchen and we baby gated him in the kitchen with her, for some reason it helped alot and she didnt go potty in her crate at all, maybe she was just lonely, but Rebel was one fit throwing bulldog this morning. i cant wait for the next couple weeks to be over so we can have both of the brats in bed with us