Okay, I'm going to weigh in now w/my opinions as both my bullies have been older
rehomes and both came w/potty issues too. Great advice & encouragement from
everyone, I think with your situation (toddlers & all) and your disappointment with
what you thought you were getting then a potty issue too, it is work, it is frustrating,
and it does cause anger, impatience & sadness...you didn't sign up for all THIS!
My 1st bully, Brutus came with many, short term owners that would have him a short
time then pass him on, at least 3 or 4 that I KNEW about and a nurse got him off Craigs
list and SURPRISE didn't have time for him either. He spent many long hours in his crate
in fact, had worn his teeth down so as a young, energetic, exuberant puppy, must have
languished in there, alone, lonely and abandoned. My sister called me when her friend, the
nurse, wanted to give her to Karen. I had decided after a couple years, off and on of re-
searching EB's then decided I WAS up to, taking care of all their issues (I'm disabled w/low
energy & constant pain) to get a puppy. Karen implied he was an OLDER puppy, I thought
about all of it again for a couple weeks then said Yes. A couple days before the 12 hour trip to
get him & bring him home, Karen called & confessed he was at least 3 y/o or more (I didn't
know anything about his former life yet) and after thinking another day, I agreed to come get
him. But I had had my heart ready & set on a EB puppy so there was some disappointment in
my heart. When I saw him at her house and got his story (I had never liked her friend, the nurse
and didn't think she was a good owner either) I knew he was coming home with me. Brutus had
impeccable manners & behavior and was sweet & affectionate, no mention of potty issues even
tho Karen had had him 3 weeks or so~I think now she must of been thinking of keeping him until
she realized he peed & pooped everywhere so passed him on to me. I'd take him out and he'd be
in 5 minutes then do his business inside! As I mentioned, I have limited energy & deal with pain, I
also had brought my Mother to live w/me & Hubby, she has Alzheimer's & I care for her, alone.
We'd just moved too, I had a house to unpack and could only do a little at a time before I had to
rest up & recuperate, Hubby was traveling and gone 16 days out and 6 days home so he couldn't
help much, it was slow going. At first, I wasn't too worried, I'd always had dogs & cats and plenty
were strays that came this problem & more so I carried on but as time went on, he wasn't 'getting
it' and even crated at night he went there too. He didn't know how to play and had no interest in
toys or even bones to chew on but he was just so sweet, loved to go for rides and had never had a
real home or love, whenever I thought all the extra work was too much for me, my heart wouldn't
let me do this to home...yet ANOTHER new place...no way! Like this great members here say, take
him back to Puppy Potty Training 101 and even put him on a leash, attached to you while you go
about your business so you are aware when he 'gets restless', get him on a consistence schedule of
potty breaks & when he does go outside, have a piece of kibble to give him right after he goes with
effusive praise & use your phrase while praising him, "Good POTTY outside!" As also suggested, go
to Vet & make sure he isn't dealing w/a UTI. Feed a grain free kibble, grain create sugar (carbs),
sugar stresses kidneys, more pee times. There is also less poo (and poo going) and less stink, poos are
much smaller & drier turds, lol
After all this, if the situation is more that you can handle right now...too much on your plate, the kindest
thing you can do is find him a home where he is wanted. EBs are very sensitive, your anger & frustration
come thru to him, loud & clear and I assure you, causing him anxiety & stress. Timing IS everything and
Honey, if it's just to much...give it up! I've been there...many times and you've got to do what is best for
you & your household. I've had to give up a pet or two when things just weren't working out but found
them great homes and it was a WIN WIN for everyone.
Keeping all of you in prayer and GOD bless!