Hi,
I know how sad it must have been to make that decision. The hardest part about any life is to know when is the right time to make that decision. As guardians of our animals, we owe it to them to make every decision that we can to the best that we can.
HUU is still relatively new. There are tests that can detect it now and for a low cost. It will take many many years for even a fraction of breeders to start to test their breeding stock.
I wonder about the first surgery that you had? Was it 10K just for the first surgery to remove the stones? Bulldogs along with several other breeds are highly likely to get stones and crystals. There are several different types. Did you find out what type they were when the first surgery was done?
That breeder was wrong to imply that you did it because you didnt have or want to pay that much money. Obviously you did. However, not the hate mail will start, at what point is the decision made for the quality of life for the dog? Would a life time of pain be worth any money? And how much money is enough to be able to afford to keep paying?
I know we all love our dogs. And we would try and do as much as we could to help them, save them, keep them alive.
Consider the breeder as making a honest decision about which puppies to cull. Cattle, sheep and livestock breeders have to make decisions all the time. If they spent the money to save the puppy.....then what? Who would want a defective dog? Look at how many dog in any breed rescue that are waiting to be place in a new home. I work with 2 rescue programs that have dogs for up to 6 months to try and find a home.
I am very sad to hear about your loss. I have had puppies die in my hands. I have lost many dogs over the years. It is never easy. I cry even when I read about other people dogs.
Good day~