You must be exhausted. I am sure your friend is scared. I spent the first year after my hub died,just "functioning" in a daze. I did and said things,that I don't even remember. I never thought I could make it. I had gone straight from my parents,to my husband. I never lived alone. Somehow I did it, and I'm still here. She will find strength she never knew she had. She has family. I had to go it alone. She is young, and though she won't consider it-she will find someone.....in time. Love and miss you,girl! I hope YOU are doing okay. Love.