Hi, just wanted to add to this with my thoughts/ concerns also. I got great advice from our vet regarding crate training. We have her crate in our living room and at night, we point it away from where people are going to walk, such as going to the bathroom, and we put a blanket over all sides except the one that faces the chair/wall. As soon as her crate is covered, she goes quite. I put some chew toys in there, but have never heard her playing or anything. However, with that being said, last night was the first night, she didn't poop in there. I had stopped feeding around 6pm and would walk her quite a few times before we went to bed around 10, and every morning, there would be poop. Last night, I fed her right before I covered her crate and no poop, this morning! Yea, I don't get it either...lol My husband gets up and 5 and takes her outside, then she gets in bed with me and sleeps until 8 ( like an alarm clock lol) so I guess slowly but surely, we are getting into a routine.
Sophia is 14 weeks old and we've had her just over a week, so it's definitely a learning process for all involved.