Dont have much advice as you got it already! Just want you to know we are here if you need anything! You are doing the best you can for you and you go the extra mile to make her happy and healthy! Good Luck with everything and big big to you and Abby!
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No advice except seeing what kind of approach they would take, instead of telling them what you are doing find out what they would do first? That is how I get second opinions, I never tell them what the other vet has me doing or the diagnosis that was given.... Go in with a fresh start and a clear head. I hope you find some alternatives, hugs to you and Abby