I am having this exact issue. Only my bed not his. Thats how I found this post using search. He is now banned from our bed but is fine everywhere else. He would be so spoiled if he would have not done it lol
At first we didnt but after a bad exp. with a guy there we started requesting the woman we had the first time. We complained to her a bit about how we didnt think he knew much about eb's. Later I found out she has the same last name as him lol, dont know if we complained about her husband to her...