See if she will let you put a warm rag on it for a bit. You get very good at massaging it in after a while we sure did with Ty. Raven would get cherry eye once in a blue and we had no problem massaging hers in. To date Tyson has had two surgeries on his. The first time we did a tack when he was neutered but close to the post-up check it popped again. Granted he had a very big cherry eye and he has droopy eyelids. The vet believes that the droopy eyes contributed to his issues. I left it alone and then it started to bother me because it looked so annoying that I felt bad for him. Maybe three months or so I decided to have it done again. This time the vet went with actually anchoring the tissue down to the orbital. Looked like it was going to be good but alas it is not to be. So our next step would be to have the gland removed and possibly an eye lift for him. I have decided to not do a blessed thing to it anymore. I don't want to chance putting him under again. Matter of fact I just spoke to the vet to discuss and he wanted to think on it. I told him I am not interested in putting him under but I would like some sort of ointment or maybe a recommendation for an eyedrop/tear replacement instead. I want to make sure the tissue doesn't get inflamed and/or dry out.
For now work on just massaging it in, I have also had to give Ty benadryl on occassion because he will get seasonal allergies and it made the cherry eyes pop. If the situation persists you can always have the surgery done when she is spayed. Good luck!
