We have had issues with Ruthie pottying since day 1 so I feel your pain. She REFUSES to go...so we just let her hold it until she wants out. We always say...we can't force her to go. Ruthie hates going. Even last night before bed, I made her go out, she didn't go and when she came back in, went to the bed and peed on it. We are always having to make sure she actually goes off the porch to go cause she won't...she will come back to the door acting like she went. She did this on Friday and pooped in the house because I thought she went that morning...nope she didn't. I'll be watching this thread for peoples advice because I need it too! Good Luck, I'm sure someone here can help you! I also have to add that we do have her on a schedule and her going in the house is VERY rare. But she just gets so stubborn and refuses.