well i could just kick myself in the butt that even though i know whats going on with abby i am just now reading this thread. where have i been? i feel like a cad and i hope bev you know how i feel and what i think of you and how your take care of abby. there is noone who could do it better. she is with you for a reason. you write so beautifully and to hear you speak of abby we all just feel like we know her and you just a bit.