I'm going to put my detective hat on here ......... ... because it looks like you joined after getting an EBN business card!!! And I put business cards in all the recent ROEB auction items that I sent out so I'm guessing you got something that I sent out.
AND ...... about a month ago it would have been Sassy who got adopted out ... but maybe you changed her name??
So I am thinking that this could possibly be Toni?????????????