Well first welcome to the site. As far as feeding him, usually you will feed them just enough to maintain their weight at that age. If he is too fat then the one cup a day may be fine until he losses some weight. If he is just right on his weight then you will just have to monitor his weight and if he losses weight then increase his food. every bully is different, depending on his exercise level and metabolism. Just play it by ear is what I do. My male bully is a picky eater so some time he will eat 1 1/2 cups twice a day and sometime he will only eat half of it. My adult girls only get 3/4 cups twice a day. As far as bathing, I say just bath them when they need it. Once a month or if they don't need it you can go longer. Some peeps bath them once a week, but I don't. It doesn't hurt to wipe them down every few days. His face you can clean it when it needs it. Sometime everyday may be too much and dry his skin out. Wiping his booty every time he poops is not a bad idea. Cleaning his paws after each walk may be too much, but if they are not red or irritated it doesn't hurt anything. We clean their ears when needed, which may be once a week or sometimes twice a week, just depends. Sounds like you are a good bully mama and are taking good care of your baby. From your avatar pic his is a handsome boy, so enjoy him, they do steal your heart for sure.