Does he greet her with excitement and playing with her? They feed off the energy presented. He should calmly walk in the house, actually not acknowledging her until she ànd everyone are calm. if she starts to behave wildly, you need to tell her no..put her on a leash and get her calm and you in control. If it persists, she gets crated right before he gets home and is let out after the frenzy is over. Feed the good behavior...stop the bad.