I agree that sounds like she is stressed our anxiousmaybe? Everything you described is typical bully behavior in smaller doses.you have gotten great advice already but maybe try hand feeding? You sure have your training down but something isn't working. My miila has a slight attitude problem or did. Feeding a handful at a time will give you that one on one time to work on listening skills.use it to work on training and at the same time you will be reteaching who is the boss. Have your h hubby feed this way too.has made a world of difference for us and miila usually is now my best behaved whereas she was the most unruly pup I had ever known. Don't give up. Doing this and then the move should help.