Ok a quick update.... I am seeing a HUGE difference in Miila. I am afraid to jinx it being so soon but yesterday she was her old self, sweet as can be. I had to bust her 1 time thats it. Not bad compared to the day before when I pinned her a good 20 times. The day before when I was feeding breakfast she wouldnt back up to where I wanted and she growled at me, so I submitted her big time. Then I made it extra clear when it was her turn to eat that she wouldnt be in charge of eating. I first hand fed her like maybe 6 handfuls of food. Then I allowed her to eat out of her bowl for a few minutes. My newest thing I am doing is making her "tale a break" from eating. When I tell her to take break I snap my fingers behind her and she finishes chewing her food and then backs up and sits down nicely. She did that 3 times during this feeding and actually have maintained that so far, not the hand feedings so much tho. All I know is she is being a sweetheart again. Lets hope it isnt just coincidence but I am feeling like I am SO in control of her right now and she knows it. SCORE! Thank you all for your help, I am sure I will need plenty more but I am so excited the way things are looking already I had to share!