This or That: Shy or Outgoing?

[Lucy-licious]

Personality wise do you need to warm to someone before coming out of your shell?
or are you one of the madding crowd always in the thick of the action?
Other? please explain

 

[JAKEISGREAT]

pretty sure I'm NOT shy.

 

[KMARINO]

Being a bartender for 16 years (and A.D.D.), I am not shy at all, I am sure people want me to shut up! as a matter of fact Joe and I were eating at a bar one night when the lady told me she liked my heels, I kept talking so much she turned her back to me!! , Joe on the other hand is extremly shy. We were out at a bar last week when a MAN dressed like a WOMAN came in and sat at the bar, I was begging Joe to move seats with me so I could talk to him and Joe would not budge! I love a very diverse crowd of friends.

 

[Alice Kable]

No shyness here, shy doesn't work when selling things to strangers at antique shows!

 

[JAKEISGREAT]

No shyness here, shy doesn't work when selling things to strangers at antique shows!

[MENTION=1612]Alice Kable[/MENTION] and [MENTION=900]KMARINO[/MENTION]...I bet there are NO srangers for you two! I've been known to totally embarrass my daughters because I can strike up a conversation with a stranger two checkout lines away!! I bet you are the same!

 

[LariP]

I'm kind of in between. Not exactly shy, but not overly outgoing either. I guess I'd say I'm "quiet" and reserved.

 

[bullmama]

I'm not shy at all, not only outgoing but sometimes I bet people would tell me to quit yapping about my kids, my dogs, dog food, life, and all the stuff in-between!

 

[cali~jenn]

Shy! But everyone who knows me disagrees. I dont talk to people I dont know so much unless there is that "click". Not that I dont want to it just isnt in me unless people talk to me. Maybe thats why I like ebn so much, it doesnt matter here. lol

 

[JAKEISGREAT]

Shy! But everyone who knows me disagrees. I dont talk to people I dont know so much unless there is that "click". Not that I dont want to it just isnt in me unless people talk to me. Maybe thats why I like ebn so much, it doesnt matter here. lol

Better watch out for the yapping..laughing crazy lady in the checkout line!! COULD BE ME!!!

 

[Mack-N-MatildasMommy]

I chose other. It depends on the situation. Here I am outgoing. Other places I am not. I will let ya'll decide.

 

[BruceP]

Judge not, lest ye be judged..........

 

[GatorRay]

I am sort of in between too. I am not comfortable in new situations and tend to just not say anything...it tends to lead people to believe that I am kind of "stuck up" sometimes but it is really that I am just not comfortable in some situations. If I am in a comfortable place, then meeting new people is no big deal and I can chat them up happily.

 

[izstigspunks]

I'm definitely shy. To the point where people think that I'm a snob. lol. Unless I'm with my closests. I'm so shy that I'm planning to join a toastmasters group where they teach you to be confident in presenting in front of people. Darn this shyness gene!

I agree that online is different. Maybe cuz I can take my time replying.

 

[Lucy-licious]

I'm reserved as opposed to shy I quietly watch until I am confident I won't offend when I open my mouth. then there is just no shutting me up.
I spent almost 4 months getting to know you guys as a guest before I plucked up the courage to say hi now look

 

[cali~jenn]

[MENTION=2092]JAKEISGREAT[/MENTION] I love it, my mil is the same way. Makes friends EVERYWHERE she goes! I wish I had a little of that in me but not so much.