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    @laurendoodler Ooohhh yes you have every right to be pissed!!! He may have just been having a moment (happens to the best of us) but still! Men can be so mean.

    I love the "old soul" ... I always say that about Julia. It's so sweet to look at life that way. Just remember one thing, don't settle when it comes to marriage. I know too many people that got married just because that was their dream; never ends well. You have soooooooo much time in life! Joe and I met when we were 25 and didn't get married til almost 30. Even knowing we wanted to get married from almost the beginning, you still have to be sure. And you will know it in your heart and gut when it's right.

    I sure hope he was just having a moment because I want to come out there and give him a piece of my mind! It's like he picked on my little sister or something! Grrr
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    @Chunksmama aw thanks I don't think he meant anything..it just..hurt.

    He doesn't understand that you can be engaged while your in college it seems. I don't want to wait three years for him to ask me and then wait like another 2+ to actually get hitched. He's such a procrastinator.

    I'm crazy about him. I've dated several guys and none are like Tim. He's exactly what I want, plus his family loves me and I love them. It just feels right.

    He's helped me get over the abuse in my past. He helped me get treatment for my depression. He's pretty much my world..so when he said that last night, it upset me..


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    Default Re: Should I be okay with this?

    Quote Originally Posted by laurendoodler View Post
    I'll also add that I kind of have an "old soul." I had to grow up too fast from stuff that happened to me so I think a bit differently.

    And half of my high school class is either engaged or married.
    Well..this is what I think of his stooooopid comment about marrying you.. FYI..I was 19 when I got married! We are all different..no perfect age..Sounds like he needs to think before he puts his foot in his mouth!

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    Um....no. lol

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