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Hi all , hope everyone feels better than I do :) I am just not feeling and have been unable to work for several months and that has caused me to get very behind on my bills and I am losing my car tomorrow and it feels hopeless like I am losing everything Knut. Oh well it's just stuff at least I have my wonderful daughter I am lucky to have her . They messed up on ordering my tests so I have to deal with all this med stuff not getting done quick enough and it's very upsetting but there is nothing I could do .... Thanks for letting me vent prayers needed and I am sending mine to all you wonderful people .


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Sorry to hear about this and better things will come along. Prayers going your way for a speedy recovery.

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Donna, I'm so sorry to hear you're not well, and are dealing with stress and worry of both your health and finances. I understand how you're feeling, as we had our fair share of bad luck, health scares, and financial crap happen to us as well. It all started with our crappy move in Dec. anything that could go wrong did go wrong, then a month before Christmas and less than a month after we bought our house, hubby got laid off from his job, and I am already off on a medical leave of absence, so definitely not a good time for both of us to be out of work. Thank goodness he found another job in his field 3 weeks after his layoff, but it was 5 weeks before he got paid again due to them holding back one week pay at first. It was a rough time, but thank goodness for my mom and my family who helped out. Then our car died in the middle of the winter, and so we were without a car, that sucks, even just to do grocery shopping, but we managed with the bus and Go trains, then hubby had a medical scare with his prostrate, and wasn't able to go to the bathroom, he had to go through tests for cancer screening, but it was a enlarged prostrate causing the problems, couldn't work for a week due to having a permanent catheter in place, and going through tests at the hospital, thank goodness he's okay, and his new boss was understanding as this was a new job, he's on medication now, and is okay, then I just had surgery 3 weeks ago, so am healing. Youre right when you say its just stuff, its really not as important as your health, and your family. It's hard when you have health problems, especially when you don't know what you're dealing with, and medical tests can take a long time to get an appointment, and also to wait for the results. I hope and pray that you get answers soon, and that what you're dealing with isn't serious and it is treatable. I'm so glad you have your daughter to help you, and to lean on, this is what families are for. Stay positive Hun, and I hope you feel better soon, please lean on us as well, we are here for you to talk to us, for us to listen, and for you to vent if you need to. I'm sending positive thoughts your way, and lots of love, hugs and prayers that you feel better soon. Take care of your self Hun, and please keep us posted on how you are doing.
 

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Donna, so sorry you are not doing well... Sending many prayers your way for a recovery! Sorry about the car too, but like you stated, it is just stuff and your health is more important
 

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:hug:Donna, I'm so sorry you're going thru such a tough time in your life. I pray and hope that things will turn for the better for you very, very soon!! Hang in there and we're all here for you so please vent as much as you need to.
 

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So sorry you are going through this, and hoping things will turn around for you and you can get better. We will be thinking of you and please keep us posted.
 

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Couldn't say it better than already said above.
Stuff is JUST stuff...when Stuart dropped dead,
he took nothing with him. You can get another job,
another car, etc...praying for better health for you.

BTW, my house of 15 years is getting repo'ed, lol
Life goes on....GOD bring you blessings, Donna
 

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Donna I am so sorry you are going through all this horrible stuff, but as averyone above has said it is just material stuff and health is the #1 priority.

Sending prayers you get through all this and remember we are all here for you. :hug:
 

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Donna, I'm so sorry you are having such a ruff time of itā€¦ hang in there, and we are always here for you!!! ;)
 
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Couldn't say it better than already said above.
Stuff is JUST stuff...when Stuart dropped dead,
he took nothing with him. You can get another job,
another car, etc...praying for better health for you.

BTW, my house of 15 years is getting repo'ed, lol
Life goes on....GOD bring you blessings, Donna

I am so sorry about your house . Losingy car is killing me I know it's stupid but I had to do without a car for years then after finally getting my dream car it got totaled and now after a couple of years of sharing and always waiting on people or just being stuck I finally get a car then I have to be ill and lose it just killing me ! But I guess I will live just not happily for now :(


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Donna, I am sorry to hear you are having a hard time. But you nailed it, "stuff is stuff." I am not a religious person but higher spirits seem to work in strange ways sometimes. YOu and your daughter are what is most important!!
 

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I am so sorry about your house . Losingy car is killing me I know it's stupid but I had to do without a car for years then after finally getting my dream car it got totaled and now after a couple of years of sharing and always waiting on people or just being stuck I finally get a car then I have to be ill and lose it just killing me ! But I guess I will live just not happily for now :(


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I know it's gonna be tough not having a car. But I believe, once you are on the road to good health and back on your feet and steadily working, you will be able to get another car. You will manage w/out one for the time being, Donna...just hang in there!!
 
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I know it's gonna be tough not having a car. But I believe, once you are on the road to good health and back on your feet and steadily working, you will be able to get another car. You will manage w/out one for the time being, Donna...just hang in there!!

Thanks I think my working days are over !!


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Thanks I think my working days are over !!

Alas, as are mine and as much as we all gripe about having to go our
jobs, it is a loss when you can't...loss of income, loss of identity, loss
of respect...it's a hard adjustment, Donna in many ways but again,
call upon GOD's promises and stand on them. Got you in my prayers!

btw...my house had flooding issues so don't feel badly for me. I just
moved into another house (renting from my Sister who took a job 3 hrs
away) and in the city where Mother's Specialists are...it's all good!
 
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Thanks I think my working days are over !!

Alas, as are mine and as much as we all gripe about having to go our
jobs, it is a loss when you can't...loss of income, loss of identity, loss
of respect...it's a hard adjustment, Donna in many ways but again,
call upon GOD's promises and stand on them. Got you in my prayers!

btw...my house had flooding issues so don't feel badly for me. I just
moved into another house (renting from my Sister who took a job 3 hrs
away) and in the city where Mother's Specialists are...it's all good!

That is good for you ..yeah and yes you are right it is hard losing the ability to work and I have to convince my dr to disable me too but I know I am done soooooo just have to deal with all the red tape ugh stress I hate it but it will get better . Prayers appreciated ANd needed thanks .


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