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    Quote Originally Posted by brutus77 View Post
    No way. That isn't even human for them to deny you. Can you try to talk to them and see if you can go before anything bad happens?? I hope everything works out for you. By the way, how did Jovi do with her surgery?
    she made me feel like sh** for even asking so im thinking about going the 30-5 now. Idk if he can last that long but all I can do is hope and pray. If he doesnt it will still be nice to see my mom and grandma and my whole family, but i really wish I could say my goodbyes to him before anything. It doesnt even sound like he will make it by wed at this point :[.

    and jovi is doing good. I guess she got out of surgery a few hours ago and wokeup about 2 hours ago. They wont feed her until morning and when they do it will be purina puppy chow. She will be there until 4 tomorrow :[ I just wish she was here right now


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    as an update: my grandpa is ICU, code blue. They dont think he will make it through the night.


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    Quote Originally Posted by xxaprilrose View Post
    as an update: my grandpa is ICU, code blue. They dont think he will make it through the night.
    Oh NO April, I'm so so sorry He knows that you are there w/him in spirit… sending lots of hugs & prayers your way!!!

    "What we once enjoyed and deeply loved, we can never lose, for all that we love deeply becomes a part of us." Helen Keller
    RIP Wellie, Bella, Winston & Roxie

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    Quote Originally Posted by ddnene View Post
    Oh NO April, I'm so so sorry He knows that you are there w/him in spirit… sending lots of hugs & prayers your way!!!

    thank u so much. and thank u everyone else too. I just want this month to end. nothing good ever comes from it, i swear. two years ago took my aunt who was healthy too, i dont know what it is because im not very superstitious but something about this month is not good for my family. But anyways i did buy a plane ticket for the 30-5 so even though i cant personally say my goodbyes i can still see my family.


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    Quote Originally Posted by xxaprilrose View Post
    thank u so much. and thank u everyone else too. I just want this month to end. nothing good ever comes from it, i swear. two years ago took my aunt who was healthy too, i dont know what it is because im not very superstitious but something about this month is not good for my family. But anyways i did buy a plane ticket for the 30-5 so even though i cant personally say my goodbyes i can still see my family.
    Call the hospital and have them put a phone to him. He will hear you. I am so sorry you are going through this
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    Quote Originally Posted by xxaprilrose View Post
    thank u so much. and thank u everyone else too. I just want this month to end. nothing good ever comes from it, i swear. two years ago took my aunt who was healthy too, i dont know what it is because im not very superstitious but something about this month is not good for my family. But anyways i did buy a plane ticket for the 30-5 so even though i cant personally say my goodbyes i can still see my family.
    It will certainly help you to be with your family right now, even if your
    dear Grandpa has passed on by then. I know how important it is to say
    goodbye and I know how sad you are that it might not happen. If so,
    remember this, your Grandpa knows how much you loved him, every
    day of his life

    My dearly beloved husband dropped dead standing right beside me in
    the ER as a massive heart attack killed him. We had no time to turn to
    each other to say goodbye. That is why it's important to show and tell
    your loved ones how you feel, every day. As much as it hurt me, he left
    this world knowing he was completely & totally loved and was my world.
    He knew how happy he had made me and how proud I was to be his
    chosen wife of 28 years. And I had the same from him.

    I will pray for you, April and am so sorry you are going thru this loss.


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    So sorry to see this, prayer's coming your way!

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    I'm sorry your job duties don't allow for your leave as needed but you need to get in a quiet and prayerful mindset and put yourself with him in spirit. Don't lose or sacrifice your job over this because you will be the only one to suffer from that in the long run and in these tough times you don't need that. We are praying for you and your family during this most difficult time.


    Cheerio mates!

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    I am sorry you are going through this. I do not have the words to give the comfort I would like. But I think, whatever your situation, as long as grandfather knows you love him that matters more than if you can or cannot be there in person. I know it would matter more to me to know I was loved than anything else. I am sending prayers your way and I hope you heal from your pain quickly.

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    April, any news about your grandfather?!!

    "What we once enjoyed and deeply loved, we can never lose, for all that we love deeply becomes a part of us." Helen Keller
    RIP Wellie, Bella, Winston & Roxie

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    Hi, April, my heart goes out to you as you go through this pain with your Grandfather, I'm so sorry. I agree with others that as long as your Grandpa knows you love him, he will feel your love. Ask a family member to put a phone to his ear so you can talk to him, tell him you love him, and he can hear your voice I'm sure this would give him comfort. It's hard when your family is so far away, I'm glad your going to go and see them. Know we are all here for you, and I'm sending lots of love and prayers to you and your family, and especially your Grandpa. Take care Hun.
    LEARN A LESSON FROM YOUR DOG, NO MATTER WHAT LIFE BRINGS YOU, KICK SOME GRASS OVER THAT AND MOVE ON.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ddnene View Post
    April, any news about your grandfather?!!
    still alive and kickin but not feeling so hot. :[ and thank you to everyone. really means alot!!!


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