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    Quote Originally Posted by Pati Robins View Post
    @Enjnene @Texas Carol
    Im so sorry to hear this :-( it is not ideal -in fact its horrible to live like this
    @Enjnene keep strong ,maybe it is good that you are here -if hes a punk to everyone at least you are there to keep an eye on your daughter xx -please try and stay as calm as possible -think about your health -i dont think he will be living there for long xx your daughter will sooner or later "open her eyes" and see that with man like this -her future wont be bright and she deserves better xx
    @Texas Carol -hun what can i say ?! You are an angel ,and your endless kindness , compassion & patience in your situation and with what you need to deal on daily basis would break many of us.You are a strong woman Carol -but even tho we all need to rant ,cry or laugh just to "escape our reality" just for few minutes to recharge xx

    This is why i come here xx


    Ladies -we are all there for both of you xxxx
    Thank you for your support I am not gonna let this punk get to me , and I know you are right he won't be around much longer , I believe he deals me all his bs to stay on my daughters good side but the less I take the more she is gonna get and her eyes will open soon ! And he will leave i will be jumping for joy then .


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    This might come sooner than you think hun :-) hes already starting to show his true colours xxx
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    Rest In Peace Winston xxx

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    Quote Originally Posted by 2BullyMama View Post
    I say the three of you pick a house and move in together.... all the love, prayers and Bullies will keep you happy and healthy .....
    Oh yeah! We can have a Bullie commune!! Share dogs, share food and share the booze!! ha!ha!
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    Lol .... But this punk is pushing me and I fixing to have his *** beat !!!!!!


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    Quote Originally Posted by Enjnene View Post
    Lol .... But this punk is pushing me and I fixing to have his *** beat !!!!!!


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    He won't know I had a damn thing to do with it


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    @Texas Carol -hun what can i say ?! You are an angel ,and your endless kindness , compassion & patience in your situation and with what you need to deal on daily basis would break many of us.You are a strong woman Carol -but even tho we all need to rant ,cry or laugh just to "escape our reality" just for few minutes to recharge xx

    This is why i come here xx Ladies -we are all there for both of you xxxx[/QUOTE]

    Dearest Pati, your caring words go far in putting needed balm on my wounded heart.
    Regretfully, I've come to the end of all I have to give and last night a fight between
    my son & me culminated with me calling the police to escort his gf from my house, she
    refused to leave when I asked her (nicely) to go. A horrible thing, I'm sick at stomach
    & heart and have made the decision to move away from him as he won't move from my
    home. My Mother is on the verge of needing hospice and I can't do it here like this...and
    won't. My sister has a home an hour up the road and empty (available for rent) so I'm
    going to rent it, move Mother & I in it and see her end of life, dignified & peaceful as she
    deserves and frankly I need myself. I am broken in every way and must have some peace
    or I will die, simple as that. So, I'm going to rest a week then turn on utilities and arrange
    movers to empty my house & transport our things. My son & his gf can do as they will, I'm
    done with them. As you say, without the outlet of EBN, I doubt I would be alive. No one
    cares about me or has any compassion about my circumstances other than you and these
    good members here. Thank GOD! Thank you, Pati, I'm blessed with your friendship & love.


    My 1st bully, Brutus
    RIP beloved boy.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Texas Carol View Post
    @Texas Carol -hun what can i say ?! You are an angel ,and your endless kindness , compassion & patience in your situation and with what you need to deal on daily basis would break many of us.You are a strong woman Carol -but even tho we all need to rant ,cry or laugh just to "escape our reality" just for few minutes to recharge xx

    This is why i come here xx Ladies -we are all there for both of you xxxx

    Dearest Pati, your caring words go far in putting needed balm on my wounded heart.
    Regretfully, I've come to the end of all I have to give and last night a fight between
    my son & me culminated with me calling the police to escort his gf from my house, she
    refused to leave when I asked her (nicely) to go. A horrible thing, I'm sick at stomach
    & heart and have made the decision to move away from him as he won't move from my
    home. My Mother is on the verge of needing hospice and I can't do it here like this...and
    won't. My sister has a home an hour up the road and empty (available for rent) so I'm
    going to rent it, move Mother & I in it and see her end of life, dignified & peaceful as she
    deserves and frankly I need myself. I am broken in every way and must have some peace
    or I will die, simple as that. So, I'm going to rest a week then turn on utilities and arrange
    movers to empty my house & transport our things. My son & his gf can do as they will, I'm
    done with them. As you say, without the outlet of EBN, I doubt I would be alive. No one
    cares about me or has any compassion about my circumstances other than you and these
    good members here. Thank GOD! Thank you, Pati, I'm blessed with your friendship & love.
    [/QUOTE]

    I wish you the best ! I am gonna hurt this punk he is demanding that I pay 550 a month for a room and still put up with him and the rest of themselves filth he said he would haul my stuff off and I dare him I put his *** in jail sooooo fast my name is on the lease here too and he can't do that !! Grrrrrrrr so I am just gonna have his butt beat , I know that's wrong but the way he treats me is worse sooooook


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    I wish you the best ! I am gonna hurt this punk he is demanding that I pay 550 a month for a room and still put up with him and the rest of themselves filth he said he would haul my stuff off and I dare him I put his *** in jail sooooo fast my name is on the lease here too and he can't do that !! Grrrrrrrr so I am just gonna have his butt beat , I know that's wrong but the way he treats me is worse sooooook

    Donna, I so understand how you feel and...your money situation too.
    Can you find a roommate and share a duplex or apt or rent a room in
    someone's house? Do you qualify for HUD?

    My advice is to leave this situation before it escalates and before some
    one gets hurt or jailed. It's just not worth it and certainly, neither is he!
    A beating could go very wrong, someone die and lives ruined forever.

    Please, put yourself 1st, out of harm's way and into a happy, peaceful
    life...you deserve it. GOD be with you & bless you...you are in my prayers.


    My 1st bully, Brutus
    RIP beloved boy.

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    I've been reading ladies, just been super busy today...

    To be honest, BOTH of these situations make me furious… since WHEN do you treat your own mother or mother-in-laws like this?!! WTH has gotten into these young people today?!! I really and truly don't understand this at all… I'm truly SORRY that you both are dealing w/these younger so called adults that don't show respect to the women in their lives. My son is NO saint, and he's still young 18… so HELP him if he acts like this, but you can NEVER say never…

    "What we once enjoyed and deeply loved, we can never lose, for all that we love deeply becomes a part of us." Helen Keller
    RIP Wellie, Bella, Winston & Roxie

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    Hi Donna and Carol, I totally agree with everyone, that having your son in laws butt kicked isn't the answer, it's tempting, but two wrongs don't make a right, and even if he does deserve it, you don't want to do anything that could cause irrepairable damage, or get you into trouble, plus you really don't want your granddaughters seeing their dad hurt, it may be terrifying for them. I'm sorry you're going through this, it can't be easy to live like this, and you must be feeling torn with your daughter. Maybe finding a room mate to share a place with would be the answer, if only to get peace from your situation.
    Carol I'm so sorry you're having troubles with your son and his girlfriend, and that it came to such a serious outcome involving the police. I thought you guys had worked out things, and he had gotten his own place, and things were better.
    Did he move back home? He shouldn't be calling the shots in your home, and you and your mother shouldn't have to leave your own home. He should have to leave, he is an adult, and can take care of himself. Don't let him run you from your house, unless you really want to move to your Sisters house. I'm so sorry you both are going through such unsettling times, and truly hope things work out for you both. Stay strong, and take care of your selves. Prayers and love to you both
    LEARN A LESSON FROM YOUR DOG, NO MATTER WHAT LIFE BRINGS YOU, KICK SOME GRASS OVER THAT AND MOVE ON.

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