porkysmamma
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Ok so my fiancé n I bought our home a few months ago we hadn't even been in it a month n my future mother in law (not excited about that if u can tell) decides her fathers (95 yr old man) living conditions r no longer suitable for him!!!!!!!! Coincidence I think not!!!!!!! She guilted her son into asking him to move in with us (without talking to me about it first 
...)!!! The first couple of weeks were fine n then he started treating me like I'm his slave demanding I do everything for him refusing food saying its too salty (I never have n never will cook with salt) critiquing my housekeeping n telling me I don't do enough around my own home!!!!!! We had to cut out parts of our walls to install a stair lift for him bcuz he can't walk up n down stairs he's never happy with anything, n he gets poop all over my bathroom so not only am i always cleaning up his messes but my house always smells like crap :'(!!!!! on top of it all he feeds porky everything off of his plate behind our backs so she gained about 15 pounds when he moved in!!!!!!!! A few weeks ago he got sick n ended up having to go to a nursing home well since then I've been less stressed out my house is so clean n smells like pine 
I enjoy being home whereas before as soon as my fiancé got home I was gone!!!!!! I've got porky on a new food figured out her allergies n she's lost almost 10 lbs everything is IMO how it should be now!!!!!!!!! Well he's coming back home Friday n his daughter is giving me a list of things he needs n wants ugh yes I'm a LPN so every one thinks I am trained for this n should just shut up n do it which aggrevates me to no end!!!!!!! Him back home means whenever he has food I need to lock my baby up bcuz he doesn't listen when I tell him not to give her food, it means 100 times more stress a very bit$hy me lots of fights with everyone n I still can't get a job bcuz he needs 24 hour care now!!!!!!!!! Our house is NOT set up for him besides the stair lift he can't do anything here but sit in his recliner n watch tv, but his daughters trailer is set up for him.......all one floor his room would be directly across from the bathroom and he'd be more stable on his feet there!!!!!!!!! I don't want him here anymore I want him to go live with his daughter but his family makes me feel like I'm a total bit$h for feeling that way!!!!!! I'm 26 I'm thinking about my future getting another bully n having kids n getting married in that order lol!!!!!!!! There's only 2 bedrooms here so until he's gone no kids n I don't want to get another dog only to have him feed it all the time!!!!!!!! I'm sorry to vent so much but am I wrong for not wanting him here, is it selfish to feel that way??????
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...)!!! The first couple of weeks were fine n then he started treating me like I'm his slave demanding I do everything for him refusing food saying its too salty (I never have n never will cook with salt) critiquing my housekeeping n telling me I don't do enough around my own home!!!!!! We had to cut out parts of our walls to install a stair lift for him bcuz he can't walk up n down stairs he's never happy with anything, n he gets poop all over my bathroom so not only am i always cleaning up his messes but my house always smells like crap :'(!!!!! on top of it all he feeds porky everything off of his plate behind our backs so she gained about 15 pounds when he moved in!!!!!!!! A few weeks ago he got sick n ended up having to go to a nursing home well since then I've been less stressed out my house is so clean n smells like pine I enjoy being home whereas before as soon as my fiancé got home I was gone!!!!!! I've got porky on a new food figured out her allergies n she's lost almost 10 lbs everything is IMO how it should be now!!!!!!!!! Well he's coming back home Friday n his daughter is giving me a list of things he needs n wants ugh yes I'm a LPN so every one thinks I am trained for this n should just shut up n do it which aggrevates me to no end!!!!!!! Him back home means whenever he has food I need to lock my baby up bcuz he doesn't listen when I tell him not to give her food, it means 100 times more stress a very bit$hy me lots of fights with everyone n I still can't get a job bcuz he needs 24 hour care now!!!!!!!!! Our house is NOT set up for him besides the stair lift he can't do anything here but sit in his recliner n watch tv, but his daughters trailer is set up for him.......all one floor his room would be directly across from the bathroom and he'd be more stable on his feet there!!!!!!!!! I don't want him here anymore I want him to go live with his daughter but his family makes me feel like I'm a total bit$h for feeling that way!!!!!! I'm 26 I'm thinking about my future getting another bully n having kids n getting married in that order lol!!!!!!!! There's only 2 bedrooms here so until he's gone no kids n I don't want to get another dog only to have him feed it all the time!!!!!!!! I'm sorry to vent so much but am I wrong for not wanting him here, is it selfish to feel that way?????? Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk
