i'm doing ok. i went and watched the giants game with some people that i met at my trampoline class...yes i said trampoline class. i debated going cause i was laying on the couch with jameson doing nothing all snug but i gave in and went. i think i would feel much better if i could get a sucker punch in...just kidding...he has really good reflexes it won't happen....jameson went to camp bowwow saturday for 6 hours to run off some energy. i think i may take him every saturday that i can...he loves going. i could probably find a dog walker but i'm home most days until at least 12:30pm and once baseball season starts till 1:30pm so i wouldnt' need one till later....i'll have to think about it. sean keeps insisting that he needs me as his best friend and i'm still thinking about it.
This is just me but I can't be friends with an ex...it's too complicated and usually results in hurt feelings. I'm glad to hear you are keeping busy. And the trampoline class sounds like a blast. I love trampolines! LOL
I can't be friends with exes either. You guys need space right now, maybe later you can be friends, but may never be best friends again. So sad that it didn't work out since you were such good friends. Hang in there.
I was in an abusive marriage with two kids and a cheating husband (with my "best friend) one thing through it all, I will never forget. One day,A good friend of mine was going on and on about her work and when she finished she asked what was new with me.......Ha, I told her I had just found out about the affair, my nerves were shot. She looked at me and cried, apologizing the whole time "I am so sorry, here I was going on and on about my life and the petty things and the whole time not realizing what you went through. Just proves SOMEONE OUT THERE ALWAYS HAS IT WORSE THAN ME. That one statement gave me so much strength! I will never forget it and when things go bad I think about that statement. Hold on, you will learn and blossom from this.
Always with me
Do yourself a favor, and don't even try to be friends. Trust me, I know. LOL
Sorry about the breakup.
(and Sarge, the spoiled rotten bulldog)
I've been through some tough breakups and relationship issues so I know the pain you are in and especially when it also includes the pups. I'm not going to say stuff about time or how you are better off... I'm assuming you already got enough of cliches. If you didn't live so far away I would suggest a playdate for our pups. Before we got Chelsea (my first EB) a brother she was alone and went to daycare atleast once a week. She seemed to really like it, now she just gets to go once a week to get away from the puppy (she is doing great with him but I think she needs her alone time too).
I wish you lots of happiness! And Chelsea and Chuy send lots of bulldog kisses and wiggles!
Please excuse any spelling or grammatical errors... I probably have both bulldogs laying on me or fighting for attention...