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    I feel better knowing other people when on to carry to term. With this being my second on I've been so anxious thinking that something is wrong with me and I won't ever have kids. But I think that's just me being sad right now.

    Roscoe has been quite the nurse. He's been very giving with the bully kisses.

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    @kayrahbear you are never alone when you are on here. The people who know your pain have been there. I'm so glad you have found this place, it's more than a site for bulldogs. I found friends on here. You have too.
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    So sorry to hear this. You have a right to be sad too. I had 5 pregnancies and 1 child. I too struggled for years and am blessed to have the one child I have. I got very angry and always thought it was my fault. We're all here for you!!! I wish you the best!!!

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    I'm so sorry to hear this and I do wish that your EBN family were close enough to give you the hugs you need. Please never apologise for telling us about your pain, hopes and the joys I know you have ahead of you. We are here whenever you need it. ... oh, and so is Roscoe!

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    So very sorry to hear this!! I can only imagine how tough it must be for you Hang in there and know that all of us here send our deepest love to you!

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    Sorry to hear your news, I have had two miscarriages, but went on to have four healthy children (including twins). Guess things do happen for a reason, know it's not easy, but you will feel better with time.
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    I am so sorry to hear about your loss. I can only imagine how tough this is for you.

    Huge hugs coming your way!!! Hang in there girlie.


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    I can't thank you all enough for all your thoughtful words. It's made me feel so much better to log on and see them.

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    I also had a miscarriage on my second pregnancy, and I was in a similar situation in the ER where they said that my spotting was going to have to wait. About 100 kids with the flu later, they finally took me in only to find no heartbeat. It was a miserable experience because they acted like I was being foolish, only to discover they were indeed wrong.

    I also analyzed it like crazy, and during this time I found out that 1 out of every 5 women (or maybe it was 10?) have a miscarriage. I realized I was not alone, and that if the fetus was not developing properly mother nature will let it go. It is not your fault.

    I went on to have 3 more children after that, I was truly blessed. Although I still get sad when I think about it, I have moved on. It will take time to heal your heart.

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