Not particularly advice here but I thought I'd 'join' in the thread to seek advice too. Hope you don't mind @cali~jenn .
The first is jealousy. Stig seeks attention whenever he thinks we're giving Punkin any. What should we do about it? Brush it off and give Stig some attention and hope that'll get better or should we not give Stig attention when he does that so we don't nurture these moments like how Cesar Milan puts it.
The second is the food like what cali~jenn is asking. Punkin acts more submissive than Stig. Should we give Stig food first seeing he's acting as Alpha even though he's 2.5 years younger?