Ken, I think you already told them.
Who are they to determine what the hell Zilia is or isn't,
are they world renowned bulldog judges?
If not, shut the F up!
You might want better friends and limit time spent with
certain family (I've disowned mine).
Zilia looks English Bulldog, maybe with American or Olde
English mixed in (still bulldogs). Bulldogs go thru awkward
stages and can & do, look like other breeds. They continue
changing until 2 yrs old, chests widen, heads drop and get
broader & heavier. Females generally don't have heads as
big as the males. At 2-3 yrs old they can look like completely
Really, isn't all that matters is whether Zilia makes you happy?
From your posts I'd say she does...it's ALL good, Dude, enjoy
and be happy