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    Could you find someone to foster him while you figure out how to fix his issue and get your other things in order? I feel horrible for you. I can feel your pain in your words. I hope you get a break soon, it sounds like you need one. If it were me, I would have to ask someone to babysit for a while. Weeks, months, whatever. It may not be an option for you . I don't know all of your situation and I am so sorry things are crappy. I can relate to crappy. Sending lots of love your way.

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    @speechmom53, How are you doing today? I am thinking about you
    My smooshy face boy!

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    I'm very sorry to hear you are looking into rehoming your fur baby Tubs. I will be hopeful that you find a solution and tubs is able to get along with your daughter so you can all live happily.

    Does your daughter have her tantrums in front of Tubs? This could easily set him off as far as protection and dominance goes.

    I've had a trainer out a few times to work with our boy Boris cause he is very aggressive with my girlfriend and he stated that it's all in the energy between her and the dog. I've been working with her to be more at ease around him and actually enforcing rules. She also needed to become part of his routine as I was the only one letting him out and feeding him therefor he respects me so much more.

    I wish you and your family the best!

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    @speechmom53 ...Have been thinking of you, dear Jen and praying
    for you & your family. Have you found a home for your sweet Tubs
    yet? Please know, EBN truly cares about you and when you feel up
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    Praying you thru your troubles, Jen...sending hugs of love & support <3


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    I am so sorry to hear you are going through this. I honestly can't even imagine how devastated I would be in the same position. I hope from my heart that all works out after all.

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    I Pray you do not have to give up your Bully Tubs. Is there a way that you can go back to the trainer to help you out with Tubs and how he acts with your Daughter, to me it sounds like Tubs is protecting you from your Daughter since she went into a tantrum fit. Tubs knows that your Daughter wants you to get rid of him, this probably is effecting the way Tubs acts towards her, Is your Daughter jealous of You and Tubs? My Daughter was so jealous of Scruffy, mixed terrier that I just didn't see my Daughter for a while until she knew that I loved Scruffy and I was going to keep on loving her. It took my Daughter a long time, but she accepted it. I Love My Dogs and I would not let anyone tell me I needed to give one of them up. Tubs has Loved You Jen through it all, Tubs adores you Jen, the way he follows you and greets you when you come home, he is always there for you. Like you said Tubs is your Rock. Please do not give your Precious Tubs Away, Tubs will stay with you until God takes him, and your Daughter will most likely get married, or move away. Then you will have Tubs to be there with you.

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