Good luck. Wish I had some advice for you but don't. You will get some though and I am looking forward to seeing what they say. Hope the visit goes well with the 5 year old. Don't blame you on the puppy thing...we were lucky with lola (great puppy except for biting & chewing up things..okay it's coming back to me) and brodie for the most part has been great but I will probably adopt next if I find one close by (that is way down the road). Lola also has cherry eye, still. We have elected no surgery for now but because she had some issues under anesthesia when she was being spayed. thank goodness all was okay but not wanting to take that chance unless we have to. Good luck!!