Well, I hate to tell ya'-but my dogs listen to me-when they feel like it! I know I have spoiled them because there are four-and I very seldom walk them on a leash-the yard is fenced and they just go out when I open the door. When I take one at a time-they behave much better! BUT having one is much easier. The secret to Bullies is food! Even when potty training, I used a treat, when they did the right thing! Get some kind of "special yummy" treat-just for training. When she does as you ask-give her a treat, and praise her like she is a Goddess! Tell her how GOOD she is! Keep a supply handy, and only give those treats when training-when she does as you ask. They are much more food oriented than most other breeds-though they ALL love treats-most other breeds do it for praise. Bullies need a BETTER reason!!ha!ha! Hang in there-they are smart, but it takes longer to train US! Don't give up-they will try your patience at times-but you have to keep at it, and it will be worth it-though it does take time and patience.