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This started before the hawk incident. I really believe its the construction upstairs. The drill sounds like a dog being tortured. The pounding is right above his head. He had a nest of tranquility in my home prior to this. Nothing changed. Now everything around him is pounding. Its pissing me off because I am all about good psychological and social development for him. I don't want to deal with a dog who has terror issues.
I read a lot of stuff from Cesar and he has a whole thing about teaching your puppy confidence in settings which may otherwise scare him. There are techniques you can use, and it is a very important bonding method where the puppy views you as his pillar of security, and actually learns that you helped him lose fear of something. I loved reading about that, so I intentionally exposed Baxter to tons of things in hopes to teach him confidence, and make him *not* like those other bulldogs I saw.... that were freakishly afraid of everything. And it was working. We flew on three planes, drove to two cities, he's met tons of people, etc.
Hairdryer, push carts, brooms ... all those quirky things that bulldogs tend to shy away from, I intentionally introduced him to, and he became very relaxed with everything. I realized it was also important to me that he not be a timid fearful dog. For some reason it really bothered me when he was afraid of things. Personal issue I guess. I never liked dogs that were so skittish that they couldn't have fun or enjoy life. Seemed really unhealthy to me. I always told myself "Those owners did a bad job of raising him. They didn't expose him to things, and now he's a mess". Now these turds upstairs have made him into an emotional wreck. The hawk thing didn't help, but this was going on several days prior. And started the day construction started.
You know how dogs get with noises around their "home". Its a potential invader. A possible attack. They go on alert and it stresses them out. This construction is just drilling him nonstop I guess. Im hoping he "gets used" to the noises.
I should note: This is different than those quirky things bulldogs react to. This is running full steam out of the entire house onto the balcony when I open the fridge, or set down an empty water bottle for him to play with. Something he used to bat the living hell out of with his paws for hours.
This is a really great example. Im in Miami. We get severely violent storms that sweep in randomly. One day, one came. It was his first. He'd never seen rain nor thunder nor violent wind. He was visibly scared. So I intentionally put him in my lap, and began speaking reassuringly to him. I could see him hold back, then relax as my voice was reassuring. Instant reaction in a positive way. I slowly moved closer and closer to the open patio door, and by the time I was done, he was hopping around without a care in the world ... depite the slamming thunder and pelting rain inches away. Felt like a success. So I agree with you @Davidh .. its got to be the construction / home invader fear. I'll spend some extra time reassuring and building his confidence as the pounding continues.
I read a lot of stuff from Cesar and he has a whole thing about teaching your puppy confidence in settings which may otherwise scare him. There are techniques you can use, and it is a very important bonding method where the puppy views you as his pillar of security, and actually learns that you helped him lose fear of something. I loved reading about that, so I intentionally exposed Baxter to tons of things in hopes to teach him confidence, and make him *not* like those other bulldogs I saw.... that were freakishly afraid of everything. And it was working. We flew on three planes, drove to two cities, he's met tons of people, etc.
Hairdryer, push carts, brooms ... all those quirky things that bulldogs tend to shy away from, I intentionally introduced him to, and he became very relaxed with everything. I realized it was also important to me that he not be a timid fearful dog. For some reason it really bothered me when he was afraid of things. Personal issue I guess. I never liked dogs that were so skittish that they couldn't have fun or enjoy life. Seemed really unhealthy to me. I always told myself "Those owners did a bad job of raising him. They didn't expose him to things, and now he's a mess". Now these turds upstairs have made him into an emotional wreck. The hawk thing didn't help, but this was going on several days prior. And started the day construction started.
You know how dogs get with noises around their "home". Its a potential invader. A possible attack. They go on alert and it stresses them out. This construction is just drilling him nonstop I guess. Im hoping he "gets used" to the noises.
I should note: This is different than those quirky things bulldogs react to. This is running full steam out of the entire house onto the balcony when I open the fridge, or set down an empty water bottle for him to play with. Something he used to bat the living hell out of with his paws for hours.
When we have a thunderstorm out side and it's thundering, we try not to react to this and if they bark
This is a really great example. Im in Miami. We get severely violent storms that sweep in randomly. One day, one came. It was his first. He'd never seen rain nor thunder nor violent wind. He was visibly scared. So I intentionally put him in my lap, and began speaking reassuringly to him. I could see him hold back, then relax as my voice was reassuring. Instant reaction in a positive way. I slowly moved closer and closer to the open patio door, and by the time I was done, he was hopping around without a care in the world ... depite the slamming thunder and pelting rain inches away. Felt like a success. So I agree with you @Davidh .. its got to be the construction / home invader fear. I'll spend some extra time reassuring and building his confidence as the pounding continues.
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