sherden24
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- Nov 15, 2012
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- Bulldog(s) Names
- Gumbo
We have had Gumbo for about 4 months. We have a shop that is on the side of the garage that is heated and cooled and we took 1/2 of it and made it "her" room. She has her food, water, bed, blankets and her own fan in her room. There is also a place to potty IF she has to (she rarely does). She really does seem to like it.
The thing is she stays in there all day while we are at work. My husband comes home at lunch and will try to get her to come out and she won't. She also won't come out at night unless I am at home. Matter of fact, she won't do anything pretty much unless I am there. With ANYONE. She loves to be with other people if I am there. If I am not, she mopes. My husband can go get her and try to get her inside and she will just stare at him and sigh. She sees me and she will almost run me down shaking her bootie because she is so happy. I am the one that bathes her, takes her outside, grooms her, cuddles with her, etc.... My husband gets kind of upset that she wont do anything for him because he also loves her. I always encourage her to go see him and she goes right up to him but she won't do it unless I am there. It just makes my schedule hard because it seems that i have to be at home at certain times and we live way away from the places that I have to sometimes be. She went 12 hours yesterday without pottying although he took her out 3 times!
Do you think this is just how she is? I am ALL about my baby. I baby talk her, I play on the floor with her, I cuddle her, I try to get her to cuddle with me rather but she is just not that kind of bullie. I don't know much about her history other than she seems scared of storms (well terrified), she was used for breeding and she likes to eat. Other than that, I don't know much more about her.
Any thoughts, suggestions, etc???
The thing is she stays in there all day while we are at work. My husband comes home at lunch and will try to get her to come out and she won't. She also won't come out at night unless I am at home. Matter of fact, she won't do anything pretty much unless I am there. With ANYONE. She loves to be with other people if I am there. If I am not, she mopes. My husband can go get her and try to get her inside and she will just stare at him and sigh. She sees me and she will almost run me down shaking her bootie because she is so happy. I am the one that bathes her, takes her outside, grooms her, cuddles with her, etc.... My husband gets kind of upset that she wont do anything for him because he also loves her. I always encourage her to go see him and she goes right up to him but she won't do it unless I am there. It just makes my schedule hard because it seems that i have to be at home at certain times and we live way away from the places that I have to sometimes be. She went 12 hours yesterday without pottying although he took her out 3 times!
Do you think this is just how she is? I am ALL about my baby. I baby talk her, I play on the floor with her, I cuddle her, I try to get her to cuddle with me rather but she is just not that kind of bullie. I don't know much about her history other than she seems scared of storms (well terrified), she was used for breeding and she likes to eat. Other than that, I don't know much more about her.
Any thoughts, suggestions, etc???