I think we try to keep in mind that where we are coming from may not be the same as where someone else is coming from. We want EBN to be educational and informative, welcoming and comfortable for everyone. We want Drama free. Does that mean I always agree? Definitely not. I'm probably overly judgmental about certain things I've seen posted. But also in the interest of maintaining Peace on the forum I've vented to a select few instead of a public rant. Feel free to use me as a vent if you feel you need to. Sometimes just that is enough, or sometimes the perspective of a sounding board is enough to temper the situation.
Oh and with one particular poster in the past I had to just not read their posts...it wasn't worth how angry they made me. So I learned about the ignore feature and used it.