I'm so sorry for your loss of Chumley, and I understand the pain of losing a beloved pet and member of your family. They take a piece of our hearts when they leave, and leave a paw print on our hearts. There is no time limit on missing someone or for grief, and you never fully ever get over it, but with time the heart does heal, and some days you will have those tears of sadness when thinking about him, and other days you'll have a laugh or a smile when you remember a funny or loving memory of him, and that's okay. Everyone's journey is different and everyone deals with it in their own way and time. Take your time and grieve him. He will always be a part of your life, and he will be forever with you in your memories and in your heart.